Friends, Before I jump in, I want to share how I was rebuked in a healthy way recently. I, like many of us, have been going through a season of suffering/trial. I began by doing a good thing – looking into God’s Word for guidance on what His will for this situation was. Having come to a peace about what God’s Word said, I was eager to see that guidance applied to my situation, which involved others. A couple brothers in Christ, in differing ways, called me to question my heart. Could I be right about my theology/doctrine, but wrong in my motivation/application? If my motivation is anything other than love, a gentle, humble desire to see the other person grow in their love for God, I have taken the good counsel of God and bastardized it from the living Word of God to become a weapon of my own selfish desires. One even reminded me that even the demons know scripture (Jam 2:19, Luke 4). The difference between us and the demons is love – everything we do should be out of a right understanding of God’s love towards us, and a desire to manifest God’s love towards others for His glory. I share this both as a testimony of how gracious and good God is to us through our brothers and sisters in Christ, and also how much we all are in need of prayer and dependence upon God in all things – because apart from God, we are always prone to self-worship rather than the worship of God – God help me if I can even use His Word to sin, I am in need of grace every moment of every day. We all are, and so in all my writing, in all my exhortation, we are all in this together.
I’ll tell you up front that I’m going a bit long today. As a Christian, there is no greater help to our soul than to see and savor the love of God towards us. It is in seeing God’s love that we are freed not only to love and find joy in God, but to love others. Love is the end of Christianity, the overflow of a soul saturated by the Spirit of God; the end result of a heart that is secure, at peace, and in need of nothing beyond God who has already given Himself fully to us. All that He has is ours, and thus we give all that we have in Him to others in love.
Friends, consider first what the love of God means. You and I, in our flesh are incapable of the depth of love that flows from God. We love people who love us, it’s a contract – if they treat us well, we will treat them well, but it is centered on us. Even if we treat others well it is because in general we expect something in return either from that person, or to be praised by others. God’s love is nothing like this. 1 Corinthians 13 (quoted at every wedding almost) describes all of the qualities of love – (verses 4-8) – “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.” God’s love is extended to us not because of anything we have done for God, but simply because God is love, and His love has overflowed to us as mercy, grace, and lovingkindness in Jesus. Romans 5:8 – “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
I wish all of us who have been broken, who have maybe never experienced selfless love towards us, would just sit here and dwell on the glory of the love of God. Christian – if you are so loved by God, that He would die for you while you from your heart and your actions denied God, and rejected Him over, and over, and over again – if you were so loved by God as a sinner, how much greater must the love of God be towards you that you are now and adopted son or daughter, clothed in the righteousness of Jesus, our Savior. He loves you, right now, right in the midst of all your sin, anxiety, struggles, regret – He declares to the world through Jesus, this is my beloved son, this is my beloved daughter. I say we should rest here, because if your heart is not full of the love of God towards us in Jesus, you will never be able to truly love someone else, which is our calling as sons and daughters of God.
1 John 4:7-12 – “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.”
I want all of us to feel something here – God does not choose to love us at times and not at others. God IS love. If God has set His love upon you, and adopted you as a son or daughter through faith in Jesus, you can know that everything in your life has been wrought from the love of God. Every thought, every act of God in ordaining everything in our life is done in love. It may not feel like it, especially when we encounter loss, suffering, trials, or even the monotony of life, but God in every moment of every day overflowing in love towards us. We may not see it moment to moment, but we can always look to Jesus and know that even suffering is used by God to demonstrate His love and draw us toward Him. The love of God should be a warm blanket that you can wrap yourself in when things in your life are not as you would have them be – you can know that God is in control, and He loves you more than you can fathom.
Again, I would say, it would be good to stop here, and rest in that – consider your life, all that you have come from, and set your heart to know that the love of God has always been and will always be for you in all things. Sometimes – often times, the love of God is greatest when he calls us to endure hard times and loss. Having rested there, consider also your motivations in life in your interactions with others. Knowing the love of God, how can you manifest the love of God to your brothers and sisters in Christ? How can you manifest it to those who are far from God? All of the commandments of God, all of His calling on our lives is done in love. He will never leave or forsake us, and whatever plans God has for our life, we will walk day by day in the love of God towards us.
Grace and Peace,
Adam