I intentionally chose the timing of this message to coincide with the start of the work week. Hopefully it will be received as an encouragement, and not the last bit that pushes you over the edge! I realize that Monday’s are difficult for most of us, but it’s probably a time when we have some measure of clarity about the end to which we were created, even if that understanding only extends to reveal to us that we were created for more than just our jobs.
Now for the readers among you, you’ll realize that I stole today’s title from our President’s book. My point today differs slightly from the message of his book though, to say that the only hope we have in the world, is to lose hope for the world altogether – at least as it pertains to our “ability” to find lasting happiness in it apart from God. Do you know anyone who seems to have everything, wealth, a beautiful spouse, power, but who doesn’t love God and seek to keep His commandments? Have you ever had a chance to ask, or has that person shared with you, about whether or not he/she is truly happy? What about those people when they are in the hospital, or at home, when they are preparing to die? Have you ever had the opportunity to have that conversation with them? Now, my purpose in asking that isn’t to be morbid, or suggest that you find these people and ask these questions in an accusatory way. No, the benefit isn’t for them, necessarily, but for yourself. Leaving room for the most hardened of hearts who might say otherwise, I can honestly tell you, that 100% of those conversations I’ve had with people over the years, has revealed that those people are not truly happy. Why is that?
If advertisements are always telling you about things you “need”, implying your life will be more happy as a result, what does it mean when someone who has everything still isn’t happy? The entire advertising industry would be shut down overnight! What would happen if the President of your company, the position you hope to hold one day, honestly told you that everything he thought he wanted from the job turned out to make him miserable, and the source of his recent divorce? Would you still pursue that job? The honest answer is even having those conversations, even understanding the truth, people still pursue the lie. So why is it that we are trying to consume our way to happinness? Why do we try to work our way towards happiness? I don’t claim to know all the answers, but they are good questions to ask ourselves. My own guess would be that maybe we want to be in control (pride) thinking that we can manufacture happiness for ourselves. We don’t want to deal with the reality, of what we already know – your job (or the next) isn’t going to make you happy, your spouse isn’t going to make you happy, money and all that it can buy for you isn’t going to make you happy, everything in life ultimately fails to deliver on it’s promise of lasting happiness.
If you’ve never talked with someone who “had it all” – you can listen to the words of Solomon from the Bible, someone who had more wealth than imaginable, more capacity for sexual satisfaction than imaginable (700 wives and 300 concubines), was the smartest person on earth, ruled a kingdom, and would tell you that everything in his life was worthless.
Ecclesiastes 2:1-11 – “I said in my heart, “Come now, I will test you with pleasure; enjoy yourself.” But behold, this also was vanity. I said of laughter, “It is mad,” and of pleasure, “What use is it?” I searched with my heart how to cheer my body with wine—my heart still guiding me with wisdom—and how to lay hold on folly, till I might see what was good for the children of man to do under heaven during the few days of their life. I made great works. I built houses and plantedvineyards for myself. I made myself gardens and parks, and planted in them all kinds of fruit trees. I made myself pools from which to water the forest of growing trees. I bought male and female slaves, and had slaves who were born in my house. I had also great possessions of herds and flocks, more than any who had been before me in Jerusalem. I also gathered for myself silver and gold and the treasure of kings and provinces. I got singers, both men and women, and manyconcubines, the delight of the children of man. So I became great and surpassed all who were before me in Jerusalem. Also my wisdom remained with me. And whatever my eyes desired I did not keep from them. I kept my heart from no pleasure, for my heart found pleasure in all my toil, and this was my reward for all my toil. Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind, and there was nothing to be gained under the sun.”
Solomon’s warning to those who would hope based on their own hands, to pursue happiness apart from God:
Ecclesiastes 9:7-10 – “Go, eat your bread with joy, and drink your wine with a merry heart, for God has already approved what you do. Let your garments be always white. Let not oil be lacking on your head. Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going.”
The reason I write this is because this lie – that lasting happiness can be found apart from God, is one of the main barriers to faith. By definition, whatever thing is pursued apart from God, as an end unto itself, is an idol before God. One cannot truly place their trust in God, while pursuing happiness apart from Him. This coupled with last week’s message about the total depravity of man, should give a good picture of how carnal man, apart from saving faith, operates to pursue “good” or “happiness” apart from a desire for the glory of God. Ironically, the sin in man, is the very reason why he cannot ever be happy on his own.
Augustine said it this way – “He loves Thee too little who loves anything together with Thee, which he loves not for thy sake”. That is to say, the greatest love one can have, or greatest joy, is a love and joy in a thing that is solely rooted in God, and pursuing the glory of God in that thing. This is how man can live, work, play, take a spouse, and enjoy all of the goodness of life that God has given, without turning those things into idols, which in turn would destroy any ability to have lasting happiness in those things. Does that make sense? I realize I might’ve lost some people there. I myself had to sit and reread that a few times to really understand what was being said by Augustine and why that makes sense, if we truly believe that God is the greatest good we could ever know and enjoy. I hope you see that. I hope you believe that and feel it in your heart daily. I hope that seeing, believing, and experiencing the goodness of God offers you great hope for eternity with God, where the fullness of His glory will be clearly seen and enjoyed by us. I hope this is a challenge and a framework whereby you can begin to pursue God in every area of your life, rather than compartamentalizing your worship of Him to certain times and places.
My exhortation for your joy is to first ask yourself what are the ways in which you pursue happinness currently. Then ask yourself if you truly believe that God is the greatest good and source of joy for you? Often times the answer will be “He should be, but He’s not”. My encouragement is to pray for God’s grace. Be encouraged that the answer to that prayer will always be “yes”. Psalm 37:4 – “Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart” Next, Ask yourself if your happinness in things derive from seeing the glory of God in them? God isn’t against you enjoying sports, taking a spouse, enjoying sex with your spouse, making a good living, or any other part of normal life, but God loves you and wants for your joy to be made full (John 15:11, John 16:24). Your joy will only be made full in as much as God is the core reason why you find joy in all areas of your life (Psalm 16:11). Have the audacity to lose hope in finding happinness in the world, to pursue happinness in God.
Grace and Peace,
Adam