Many people misunderstand Christianity. For one person, Christianity will be about obeying a list of rules. They view God as this all powerful being like Zeus, who is standing up in heaven just waiting to zap someone who offends Him. Others misunderstand Christianity to be a “get out of jail free card”. This person will acknowledge God’s existence, and perhaps that he died and rose again, and not see a need to subject themselves to Him. They delight in the Savior, but not in the Lord.
In the first person, this manifests usually by a person constantly being stressed out. They will constantly be viewing God’s love for them in terms of their obedience, and often will be harsh towards the failings of others. They are so concerned about their level of “success” in terms of their outward obedience, that they become judges themselves; comparing themselves to others. We’ve all run into someone like this at church at least once, and it probably wasn’t an encouraging experience.
The second person is the one who tells you over and over that he is saved by grace, and rejects any attempts by others to rebuke him, does not submit to church authority, and doesn’t like the idea of being “accountable” to other people. After all, God’s his judge right, those people are just sinners, and we’re all saved by grace, so what’s the point? He hides behind poor theology, to justify those sins that he loves to hold onto; that he doesn’t want to put to death. This is the person that you’re afraid to be friends with in church, because of a fear that he might lead you astray as well. Usually this person puts up a front that is outwardly happy, but secretly is frustrated, wondering why he doesn’t have the same joy he sees in others.
What do these two people have in common? Outwardly, one seems very pious, and outwardly the other seems very licentious, so outwardly they would look very different. Inwardly, however, the greatest love of both these persons is themselves, they do not delight in God. One wants God to be pleased with him, so that he can go to heaven maybe, or so that he can feel good about himself vs. other people. The other person, see God as a means to excuse himself from the guilt and shame that accompanies his sinful lifestyle. He doesn’t love God, he loves his sin. Neither of these people have any real affection for God Himself, so is God supposed to be pleased with this hypocrisy?
Let’s look at this in the context of a man and wife’s relationship. Matt and Stephanie are 34, married for 10 years today, and this is a big anniversary. Matt had planned to order flowers for his wife, and take her our to a nice italian restaurant. Matt decided to go out to a happy hour after work with his coworkers, and before he knew it, he looked over at the clock, and sees that it’s 8pm, the florist is closed, and he’s missed their reservation. He gives his wife a call. He apologizes profusely that he lost track of time again, and tells her that he’ll be home soon. When his wife starts crying over the phone, Matt compounds the problem, by doing what he always does; making jokes to try to make light of the situation. He tells his wife that he’s not perfect, everyone makes mistakes, and he’ll do better next time. When he finally comes home, he doesn’t understand why his wife seems distant from him.
Jeff and Stacey are 36, and also have been married 10 years, today. Jeff shows up at the house, exactly on time at 7pm for his anniversary date with his wife. He sends her flowers, takes her out to dinner to a nice italian restaurant, and then promptly comes home. His wife wants to talk, but he feels comfortable that he’s “done his duty” as a husband, and asks to talk to her tomorrow. She starts crying, and he feels bitter that “nothing is ever enough” for her. He doesn’t realize that she knows that his secretary sent the flowers, and made the reservation for dinner, she doesn’t even like italian food.
Is this how you treat God? Can you see now, how Matthew 7:22 means to speak of the obedient, dutiful person – “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me,you workers of lawlessness.”
For the person to approaches the cross of Christ as a means to licentiousness, can you see how God is far from this person? He gives a warning to those people in 1 John 3:9 – “No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’sseed abides in him, and he cannot keep on sinning because he has been born of God. By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother.”
Chris and Stephanie have been married 10 years, today. Chris, has been thinking about what he can do for his wife Stephanie on their anniversary for weeks. He knew what her favorite flowers were a special kind of iris from talking with her over the years, and knew that she’d mentioned wanting to go to a italian restaurant that was opening. He made reservations a week in advance, and had the nice planned out perfectly. He left work early to get to the florist before they closed, but had a flat tire. By the time he got to the florist they were closed. Chris went to 3 other florists, but they didn’t have the perfect flowers. Chris called to confirm his reservation, only to find out that the restaurant had been closed due to an electrical problem. The world seemed to manifestly be against Chris as it started to pour down rain on him while he fumbled for his keys. He picked up a dozen roses and a card, and came home to his wife. He told her about his afternoon’s events, and handed her a card with her roses that said, “Each day brings new challenges, but the best part every day was coming home to her, and he loved her more every day.” Chris and Stephanie didn’t make it to dinner, but needless to say, Stephanie’s response made it known that she loved her husband as well.
Where does this leave us. If we are honest, each of us has probably fallen into one of the first two categories, at least in some area of our lives. The good news is that God isn’t like Zeus, waiting around with thunderbolts; God is patient, loving, and genuinely desires for us to be joyful in Him. We are left with the command and promise from Psalm 37.
Psalm 37:4 – “Delight yourself in the LORD,and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
The mark of a Christian, who is walking with the Lord is his delight in God Himself. We are commanded to delight ourselves in God, which means our focus as Christians ought to be joyful in God more and more. We are promised that as our joy is found in God, He will give us more of our desire, Himself. We must fight the fight of faith each day to look at the cross, as our means of reconciliation to God, and to pursue joy in God, to have God as our portion. We can approach each day, and look forward to eternity with God in joy and hope from Psalm 16:
Psalm 16:11 – “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.”
Jesus is at the right hand of God the Father, He is our portion, and in Him we will delight for all eternity. The joy we have in Him now will be a glimmer, that will burn into brightness for eternity, as we see Him clearly face to face, and our joy in Him is magnified beyond what we possibly could imagine.
So how do we begin? First we begin by admitting we cannot manufacture true love for God through obedience, and God is not pleased when we mock his love for us on the cross by sinning against Him. God gave us a new heart, and so our actions must rest there, to ask God to form in us a heart that delights in Him. God’s answer I believer can be found in John 15:7 and Job 22:21.
John 15:7 – “If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.”
Do you delight in the Word of God, as a means of God revealing Himself to you? If you do, what you wish, will always be for more of God in your life, and God will always answer yes to that question. That is because your joy is magnified, and the object of your joy is God, so His glory is magnified as well.
If you want a more step by step application, meditate through Job 22.
Job 22:21 – “Agree with God, and be at peace; thereby good will come to you. Receive instruction from his mouth, and lay up his words in your heart. If you return to the Almighty you will be built up; if you remove injustice far from your tents, if you lay gold in the dust, and gold of Ophir among the stones of the torrent-bed, then the Almighty will be your gold and your precious silver. For then you will delight yourself in the Almighty and lift up your face to God. You willmake your prayer to him, and he will hear you, and you will pay your vows. You will decide on a matter, and it will be established for you, and light will shine on your ways. For when they are humbled you say, ‘It is because of pride’; but he saves the lowly. He delivers even the one who is not innocent, who will be delivered through the cleanness of your hands.”
We begin with the gospel, that we agree that we are without hope apart from Christ, we turn from sin and toward Christ, and in Him we find peace. It is because we have been reconciled to God, and are at peace with Him that we can receive His instruction to us in His Word, and see it not as directing our outward obedience, but explaining who He is, and who God has made us to be in Christ. It is because we find joy in God, that we will then remove sin from our life, which would separate us from Him. As God works this out in us, we will delight in God more and more, because we will have more and more of Him in our life. Then we will seek God, we will make plans, and can rest assured that whatever the outcome, our plans will be established in such a way to give us more of God in our life. (x-ref Rom 8:28).
Where do you fall out in all of this? Do you find your joy in God increasing more and more over time? If not, are you seeking joy in God as an end, or have you made God a means to pursue joy in sin? Have you sought joy in obedience as a means to see God clearly and have more of Him in your life, or are you pursuing obedience becuase you want God to accept you, or so that you can Lord your “success” over others who are struggling? Rest in your weakness at the foot of the cross. You have nothing to offer, but in Christ are given everything. Delight yourself in the Jesus you find revealed not just in the gospels, but throughout all of scripture. Let the Word rest in your heart, and you will find your greatest delight, and God’s pleasure for His glory are not antithetical, but are synonymous. God is only pleased in those who love Him, and the only people who love God are those who reckognize they are powerless to do so, yet are given that power through belief on Christ as their redeemer.
My encouragement is to find yourself among this scripture, and take a step towards God. If there is no delight in your heart for God, there is no better prayer to God than to ask, and it is a prayer God will delight in saying “yes” to. Christians should be the happiest people on Earth, because nothing can diminish the source of our joy, and we live in eager expecation of the fullness of joy to come.
For your joy in Him,
Adam